"How can you still live with your ex?" folks often ask (or wonder, but are too polite to ask). I answer that it's weird, but it works.  Not everyone hates their ex-spouse and it is nice to be on good terms even though you're no longer in love.  My heart is elsewhere, but my first concern and responsibility is to Zack.  Neither Steve nor I can afford to provide the quality of life Zack has now individually, nor the cooperative support he receives by having both parents around.  So it is in Zack's best interest for us to maintain one household.  This could, of course, change should either of us find a new relationship. Steve's a great guy and I would be happy for him to find love, but Zack's welfare remains our priority.
 

I found and lost my Twin Flame, and I've learned it's better to have no relationship than the wrong one, so I am done looking.  The past three years have given me time for self discovery, to work through past traumas and for self improvement.  Depending upon the order in which I get things up on my site, I have, or will, share a lot of my "journey" in the "Me Stuff" section. There will be a lot of stuff there that may make some folks very uncomfortable, but the more we tell our stories, the more likely it is that others may learn from our experiences or see similarities in theirs and realize they're not alone.
 

I haven't been alone in my growth - the support and encouragement I've received (and continue to receive) has been truly amazing - but my journey is truly my own, to do on my own, and I can be very proud of where I am today. 
 

I know the meaning of unconditional love, that believing is a strength,
not a weakness and Angels do exist.